Wes DeShane
Died: September 16, 2017 | Place: Residence
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DeShane, Wes….
Suddenly but peacefully at his residence on Saturday, September 16, 2017, seven days before his 79th birthday. Wes lived with enormous passion and panache, belying his accountancy background. Passions included jazz, antiquing, cooking, shopping for the finest gourmet ingredients, cars and collecting anything that appealed to his impeccable eye. One of his earliest prizes was convincing his darling Louise to become his wife. He’d often say, “I married an older woman – one year and six days difference”. They shared over half a century and produced the next treasure of their life together, their son Peter. Wes’ panache stretched from his acumen in business dealings to the way he set up a table with perfectly polished goblets. His leadership on numerous charitable boards and his generosity in giving influenced many in London to follow suit. Wes DeShane had an enormous heart which ironically did him in as he bent down to confirm the bottle count in his wine cellar. Wes leaves many friends and admirers along with his sister, Noreen DeShane who shared his love of their family cottage on Long Point and his favourite niece, Wendy Sperry. His spirit will remain in our hearts forever. He is survived by his wife, Louise DeShane, his son Peter DeShane and his wife Jen. Loving grandpa of Barron and Raphael. Dear brother of Noreen DeShane and brother-in-law of Gilbert Sperry and his wife Joyce. Cherished uncle of Kathy Sperry and her partner Mark, Wendy Sperry and her partner John, Deborah Sperry, Greg Sperry and his wife Kim and their families. Friends will be received by the family from 7-9 pm on Thursday, September 21, 2017 at the A. Millard George Funeral Home, 60 Ridout Street South, London. The celebration of Wes’ life will be held in the funeral home chapel on Friday, September 22, 2017 at 1 pm. As an expression of memorial, donations may be made to the Grand Theatre (www.grandtheatre.com) or Long Point Region Conservation Authority (http://www.lprca.on.ca/pages/1/Home). Online condolences, memories and photographs shared at www.amgfh.com
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Dear Louise, Peter and family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Wes was a wonderful man and a great boss. Please accept our sincere sympathies, Ruth & Barry McDowell
Wes, memories of you will stay with me forever. You were such a kind man, always advocating for the underprivileged. You knew what was fair and just, and stood your ground.
My sincere condolences to Louise, your family, and to everyone you touched as you went through your life’s journey.
Mary Lou
Dear Louise, Peter, and Family,
My deepest sympathy to everyone in your great loss. I didn’t know Wes but I always enjoyed the having you for my cousin, Louise. You are starting one of the loneliest times of your life and you will shed many tears for your loss. May your happy memories keep you company in these sad times.
Sincerely,
Rosemary
Deepest condolences to you, Peter and your mother, on the loss of your father. There’s little doubt he lived life to fullest and will be remembered in such a manner. My memories are few but they’re positive from all those years ago on the corner of Piccadilly Street. Peace be with you all during this time.
Jean and I spent many an enjoyable Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning at the DeShane’s cottage on Lake Erie. Wes was a consummate host and made us feel very welcome. On one occasion, he even produced a Questar Telescope knowing of John’s interest in astronomy. Our thoughts are with Loiuse, who must miss him very much.
John and Jean Black
We both worked at Emco when Wes worked there and became married in
1964. Wes was a man who impressed us as a dedicated employee and one who cared for others greatly. We feel grateful for having the opportunity to have met Wes and worked for the same company. He will be missed.
Another person who worked with us is Stuart DaCosta. Don’t know if he will send an on-line message or attend the funeral but we just wanted to let you know that Stuart and Betty share our thoughts about Wes.
“An honest man lies here at rest ,
The friend of man ,the friend of truth ,
The friend of age, and guide of youth ,
Few hearts like his with virtue warmed,
Few heads with knowledge so informed ,
If there’s another world ,he lives in bliss ,
If there is none, he made the best of this!”
Epitaph On A Friend, by Robbie Burns.
RIP Wes ..we will miss you and will be warmed by the many happy memories we shared together .
Dear Louise, Peter and family–please accept our sincere condolences on the recent passing of Wes. We truly loved and appreciated his keen wit, sense of humour and zest for life. He was a good friend and mentor to me and we will miss him dearly.
Of the 40 years I have been in business life, the six years working with Wes were the best. There are few who had his mix of knowledge and wisdom and who had that rare characteristic of being a good businessman and a wonderful human being.
He will be missed. My condolences to the family.
Wes , you Louise and Noreen were good and great friends to my brother Peter for many , many years . And Wes you were a great help with Peter’s affairs during his years of illness . I sincerely appreciate that .
Also , as a fellow ” car guy ” I have a fond memory of you taking me to the first Canadian Grand Prix in 1967 , when I was 15 years old .
All the best . Tim Lynch
Dear Peter, we are very sorry to hear of the passing of your father. We send our condolences to you and all your family during this sad time. May you dwell on wonderful memories and happy times.
Peter, so sorry to learn of the passing of your father. Sending peaceful thoughts your way.
Cara
Wes, our dearest friend of 40 years, and frequent welcome visitor to our New York apartment and we to your and Louise’s home and cottage: You will be missed beyond words. Your humour, your cooking, your wine selections and your love of life was incomparable. You were one if a kind! Condolences to Louise, Pete and Wendy for your loss. Sorry we could not be there now but we will visit soon and provided all the love and hugs we can lay on all of you.
Dear Louise, Peter and Family, our heartfelt sympathies to everyone, Wes will be greatly missed by many who knew him.
Dear Louise, Peter and family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you, and your family.
I am
so sorry for your loss Louise .My Condolences to your Family .Wes was a very great man..
My sincerest condolences on the passing of Wes. It was a pleasure to work with him while he donated his incredible talent to his charitable causes