Violet Emma Farr
Died: January 31, 2015 | Place: LHSC- Victoria
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FARR, Violet Emma…
Peacefully at Victoria Hospital, London on Saturday, January 31, 2015. Violet (Bieman) Farr in her 104th year. Beloved wife of the late Reverend Canon Maurice H. H. Farr. Cherished mother of The Reverend Canon Michael D. H. Farr and his wife Kathleen of Kincardine. Proud Gramma of David Farr and his wife Elizabeth Skakoon of South Korea and Saturna Island B.C. and Heather Farr and her husband Chris Maley and great-gramma to Ainsleigh of Ottawa. Will be remembered by many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her sister Lavina Rahn, Lisette Winkler, Lunella Riggin, Lauretta Phaff, Ruth Sinclair and her brothers Daniel, Arthur, Isidor and Roy Bieman. Friends will be received by the family from 2-4 and 7-9 pm on Wednesday, February 4, 2015 at the A. Millard George Funeral Home, 60 Ridout Street South, London. The funeral service will be held on Thursday, February 5, 2015 at 11:00 am at St. Luke’s Anglican Church (Broughdale), 1204 Richmond Street, London. Spring interment in Trinity Anglican Cemetery, Durham, ON. As an expression of sympathy, donations may be made to St. Luke’s Anglican Church (Broughdale), The Primate’s World Relief & Development Fund or charity of your choice. Online condolences, memories and photographs shared at www.amgfh.com
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Our deepest sympathy to Michael, Kathleen, David, Heather and your families. Aunt Violet was a wonderful part of so many lives. All of us the better for sharing her love, humour, guidance, advice and wonderful letters. And, … oh those hats. She will be much missed but always remembered, Francoise and Ian
To All the Family: You have lost a treasure, but at the same time, all of who knew her well have so much to celebrate in this wonderful woman and her life. She was such a wonderful woman to meet. Her charm and care for all she met made a day for any and all that were blessed by her presence. Both Pat and I will thank God that we can call Violet a close friend. We will mourn her passing but joy forever in her remembrance.
We can not be there because we are going south with friends this week. We will be with you all in spirit. May she rest in peace and be raised in glory. Thanks be to God. Pat and Bruce
Dear Michael, Kathleen and family
We are so sorry to lose Aunt Violet. She was an inspiration to us all. We will miss our visits with her and her sense of humour.
We will be thinking of you this week as you prepare for her funeral.
With love
Lois and Roy
Michael, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow.
I will miss Violet, she was a wonderful woman and her spirit always made a visit to St. Luke’s Anglican church more special.
Dear Michael, Kathleen, David, and Heather and families.
My deepest sympathy for the loss of a wonderful mother and grandmother. I have such loving memories of her and all your families. I am sure she is at peace with her Maker that she loved . God be with each of you now and always.
To all the Family;
We send our sincere condolences on the passing of a great lady and a faithful member of the Irish Benevolent Society. It has been our pleasure and privilege to escort Violet to the recent Society celebrations of March 17, most recently when she was celebrating her 100th year. She will be missed by her many friends. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Charles Patrick & Elizabeth Corbett
I got to know Mrs Farr when I was a student at Western University, attending St Luke’s church 2008-2012. I’ll never forget our coffee hour conversations — she had such a clear, sharp mind and such an uncompromising sense of what’s right. Once, when there was talk of some people leaving the church over a controversial viewpoint of the minister, I remember she told me “we don’t come to church to worship the minister — we come to worship God.” I also remember how she did an informal survey of why people come to church, and was appalled to hear the answer “to see all the nice people.” Sure, the minister is important, and it’s good to see nice people, but Violet reminded us always about the meaning of our worship. Religion was never a rote or mechanical thing for her — she really was a lady with her eyes on the prize, full of the Spirit.
I remember her telling me about welcoming a young black couple to her husband’s congregation many years ago. A white member of the congregation — a prominent member of the London community — called up Mrs Farr and gave the ultimatum: either ask the black couple to leave the church, or else she and her husband would leave. Mrs Farr said calmly, “Then I guess I won’t see you at the baptism of their child next Sunday.” She knew what was right, and didn’t mind ruffling the feathers of important people if they didn’t like it.
I know why God gave her such a very long life — right into her 100s she had stories, wisdom, and fiery inspiration to offer young and old. I’ll truly never forget her; I’ve been blessed to know her. Earth is poorer for her loss, and heaven is a more splendid place with her in it.
May the words of her mouth and heart now be acceptable to you Lord that she may intercede for us in this World . Say hello to Gramma Rahn. May the fairways be straight with the Lord.
Donna, AnDrew Rahn
Michael, Kathleen and family, my sincere sympathy in the loss of your mother.
She had a wonderful long and full life and will be missed by all who knew her and loved her.
I often heard stories about my Great-Aunt Violet growing up. I would hear about how she would keep in touch and up with all the family news. She was vibrant and a real gem. I want to offer my condolences and sympathies. May she rest in peace.
Kathleen, Michael and family. so sorry to hear about Aunt Violet’s death. she enjoyed a marvellous life, always had a story and a laugh. Peter remarked that he will not get his usual St. Pat’s card this card and miss the accompanying letter. Wish we could have been with you today but travelling is something we don’t do any more. All our prayers and love to all of you. Doreen & Peter
I’m sorry I was unable to attend the service, but I’ve heard from Simon that it was a lovely service. Although, I saw Aunt Violet infrequently, I have pleasant memories of her warmth and humour when we did meet at family gatherings, and especially of one lovely afternoon in Kincardine when she made tea for us when we dropped in with Dad. She figured largely in family stories as Dad was extremely fond of her.
I accidentally pressed send before I offered my prayers for your family during this sad time. Although Aunt Violet had a rich, full life, it is never easy to say goodbye. My thoughts are with you all.